What are we going to do?
That's what you are probably wondering.
To be perfectly honest, I cannot give a clear and unambiguous answer to that. I move from my intuition and through attunement I bring in the necessary ‘tools’ that will help and serve you in your process. Your process is unique. There may be similarities with the processes of others, but since you are a unique being like everything and everyone here in the world, your process is also unique and all yours.
In my way of coaching / guiding, there are always components of slowing down, experiencing, feeling. I also look at my work holistically, which means physically, emotionally and spiritually. It's a spiritual path we walk here, but on earth. We have to do it here on earth. Live from our hearts and move from there. I personally believe that when we let the world around us lead us too much we often get distracted from what we really have to do here. The further we get away from that the more we start to experience this spiritually and/or physically. A kind of feeling of swimming against the current to a greater or greater extent.
In any case, we start by clarifying what your question for help is. Often what we think we want is not exactly what we really want, because it stems from beliefs we have acquired in our lives and sometimes even before this life. These beliefs are generally focused on our external world and therefore do not serve us to really live from our hearts. So we first go to who you are in essence. From there we find out what your deep help question is I will support you to move from there.
It can also be that not much is needed at all and that one or a few sessions with me already provide enough clarity to move on. Sometimes there is just a blind spot somewhere. One thing is certain, whatever it is; you hold the key!
Obviously, it only depends exactly on what we will work on which indicates what the duration and intensity will be. There is obviously a difference between sparring about an idea or wanting to change a deeply held belief and everything in between. For example, answers or ideas may come up that you simply never thought about and that is exactly what you are looking for. I can give you some clarity on this after an exploratory conversation.
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Why would you want to do this with me?
First, because you yourself are open to it and are looking for someone to help you with this. It is the deep knowing and feeling that something has to start changing. You yourself have to have the will and want to open up to looking at something with someone else that you can't figure out on your own or perhaps just find exciting or difficult to do on your own. This ‘wanting it yourself’ is a great strength and actually required. This may sound serious or maybe even strict, but it is only possible to help someone who is actually open to this.
My work as a coach, my finely tuned intuition, my experience as an expert in many areas, my openness and my gift for seeing the broader picture of situations makes me a very competent and, above all, pleasant discussion partner. Nothing is foreign to me. I like to look at things seriously, I am direct, but I also like light-heartedness, laughter and sociability. That can sometimes clear the air wonderfully, especially when it comes to exciting, intense topics.
Perhaps the most important reason of all is that I value ‘safety’. It is hugely important to me to create an environment where you feel safe enough to express yourself fully and freely, and also feel free enough to look at all possibilities. My mission is to help and support you with changes in your life and thus your growth.
Positive changes always contribute to growth and transformation in their own way. No matter how difficult or intense they may feel at first.